leomama,

Wow, what a complicated situation. I guess it would've helped if I read that you work with this dude. That is very difficult and complicated. I have often felt grateful that most, if not all, of the women that I work with are either married or way older than I. I could not imagine how difficult it must be to have to work with this man after all this mess.

Regarding his mother....He is very lucky to have his mother in his life. I lost my mother 11 years ago and would give anything to have one day with her. It is obvious that she enables him and possibly stunted his social growth by how much she cares for his needs. He is also very lucky that he has had the opportunity to have romantic episodes in his life, considering the amount of doting his mother gives him. I don't wish ill on anyone, but he is in for a rude awakening the day his mother passes.

Regardless, use this forum, as do I to vent...feel free to vent

--Sarc