Maybe it is telling that ruby always posts on the relationship forum not the work issues form, when all posts boil down to issues related to co-workers and managers. Even the title of the thread refers to "people in your life", not colleagues.

Ruby, when you can get therapy maybe that is something to discuss. We have talked about boundaries a lot here, and I think maybe you are still not recognizing that work relationships are different from family or friend relationships.


And, no, you don't have a right to ask someone else to be removed from a therapy spot, because your abandonment, which wasn't really abandonment, is somehow more important. It doesn't work that way.