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Originally Posted by Rose76
I'm glad if I've helped you think through a few things.
So Mom is willing to let son's girlfriend move in. How cozy! She really is determined to keep him tied to her apron strings. Wouldn't that be lovely to have her in the catbird seat watching every ripple in her son's relationship.
If you moved in there on the understanding that such a set up would be temporary, you'ld find that he'ld have one excuse after another as to why the two of you couldn't leave.
Between Mom and Son there are no boundaries. The two of them are committed to keeping it that way. She is way, way too intrusive in her son's life. You were very wise to reject the invitation to move in there. Your life wouldn't be your own.
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Oh yeah she got a little ornament for the backyard that said “together 4 ever” with two skeletons, cause she knows I like that, and a sugar skull decoration too, trying to make me feel at home. She told her son to make room for me in his space so he gave me a drawer under his bed [emoji1]
He has zero intention of moving out. Of course I had no idea of this when I started dating him. Even people at work thought he had moved back home temporarily to support his mom when his dad died. [emoji1] no, he never left.
Yet and still people thanked me for being his girlfriend , so to speak, and were so happy for him. What about me? [emoji849]
And he , both of them, acted like I was the problem because I didn’t approve of their setup. [emoji23] yeah like he basically attacked me over telling me I wanted to take him away from his family!
I’m just shocked I let it go on for a full year.
Yes you’ve helped me a lot. [emoji3590]