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Old May 15, 2008, 09:00 PM
certainsomething certainsomething is offline
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Thank you all for your replies !
Doh2007, I'm not sure to what archives you're referring, I'm new here and this is my first post which was initiated after not being able to find posts similar to my specific situation on this forum.

Wounded, RomanSunburn, Bonaire and Moose, I have reflected deeply on what each one of you stated. I think this slight attraction problem stems from my fear of commitment (which I think is justified considering my lack of relationship experience). I guess I just feel like I'm not ready to think of marriage and children, even though my girlfriend brings these subjects up quite often (she goes crazy when she sees babies and children). Maybe I'm feeling a bit pressured or trapped.

When I think of it, my girlfriend is the most amazing person I have ever met. I have never had such great chemistry with someone as I have with her. I used to go out on dates before meeting her and it's safe to say that she definitely has something special. I feel good and comfortable around her, whether we're sharing a moment of silence while taking a walk or doing something exciting.

I was a late bloomer and often thought this would be a curse, and that no woman would want a 22 year old virgin who had never been in a relationship. How wrong I was. I'm glad she is my first and hopefully only; I was selective of all the right things (personality, sense of humour, chemistry, trustful, values and background) and it paid off. And don't get me wrong : I wasn't insinuating that the sex wasn't good, in fact it's great because we both feel extremely comfortable with each other. And for sure we should maybe explore more aspects in that area. I guess, it's just my male instinct being curious and physically attracted to other women (only physically). But in the end, I know that none of them, no matter how beautiful, can compare to the special something her and I share.

Thanks again for your replies and keep them coming if you have anything else to add. I'm glad I discovered this forum and hopefully I can contribute in some way in the future.