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Originally Posted by poshgirl
You made the right decision to walk away.
As a female, I am ashamed by how some women behave. I know we have different traits but there seems to be an expectation that guys will do exactly what they want.
It's best to move on and put it down to experience. That's a weak statement I know, because sometimes we need to understand why someone behaved like that. Look at it this way, if you'd bought a house together then she would have found something else she wanted. And the list goes on....  |
Thank you for your input! I know I have to take responsibility as well as she would check in to see if I still wanted to buy a house together and I would always say that was the goal as it is nice to have a goal. What I should have done was just say no I do not want to buy a house together and have her leave me because of that maybe I wouldn't be going through all of this emotional turmoil. I look back on it and know I should have gotten out sooner rather than later. I am trying my best not to have a jaded view on relationships but have been watching a lot of youtubers and videos about the "Red Pill". I agree yes there would have been something else she wanted after a house. Maybe next was a new vehicle for the family to fit everyone like a van. Then who knows after that. I just want someone to actually love me for me and just be happy with me and not a wanted future object. I want someone to know my worth and know that they are lucky to have me for me and not base it on anything else.