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Originally Posted by eskielover
My thoughts are simple after having had a long distance relationship for years way back in high school (late 60's).....stick with guys who are actually in your immediate area to get in relationships with. Too many things can be lied about & faked over a distance because you can never see their actions between your times of communication. You have no idea if they are being honest or not cause you never actually are in their presence to observe body language IRL.
I personally wouldn't waste my time or energy on a long distance relationship that has no chance of becoming anything REAL. Love develops with time & actual connection with the person IRL. They & you can hide the things that would irritate the other person. Love long distance is infatuation about what you wish you had in a relationship you can actually experience without all the UNKNOWNS.
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Eskielover, thanks for your thoughts. Just to clear up, I have no intention of having a long distance r-ship. I would be happily prepared to move if things got serious between me and either of them, as I love both places and have been there for some time so I know what they're like. So that is not a big issue for me. Now what do you think of each? : )