I think neither one.

P was 36 and spoke with you intimately when you were 13, lying about his age for years? That in itself is an unforgivable dealbreaker for me.

Due to covid if I were you I would not allow someone from overseas to visit me at my parents' house.

I definitely do not think that you should move away from your country, as you suggested, to be with any guy you only know online now. That is way too risky.

What interferes with you meeting people where you live? If covid, wait until meeting people is safer. Don't take major risks with these online guys.