Obviously it is not much of a dilemma since it sounds like you have already made up your mind & counter anyone that says NEITHER choice is a good one.
I personally would never move anywhere because of a person. I would move to where I want to live because I want to be there as an independent person then make friends as I get established. BTW, I left my marriage & moved 2100 miles away to a little farm I bought in a town where I knew absolutely NO ONE. For me, independent is the best way to go until after years of knowing someone to know if they are compatible being around them a lot.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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