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Originally Posted by leomama
Having been in your situation , ldr wuth an older man I met online, who lied and was deceitful, I agree with the majority who say neither. You would move for them? Did you meet them on a dating site? Did they propose marriage? Have they met your friends and family? What do you have in common? These both sound like infatuations.
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I met one on a chat/socialising site, and I met D in real life, as I said in my OP, he lives next to my relatives. I went out with him a few times and met some of his friends, too, and I guess if he comes in August, he'll meet some of mine. I only had the opportunity to do video chats with P, but I will be happy to visit him when corona restrictions are loosened etc.
I expected the negative comments about P in a way, but surely D is a sure option? Either way, it is my decision, I forgave the first but am very confused about how to decide.