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Old Jul 08, 2021, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted by leomama View Post
Thank you [emoji120] I’m not sure that’s the problem as he’s trying to make himself available to me. I think it boils down to a lifestyle difference . If I have a mental health diagnosis , I’m going to do whatever I can to optimize my life. If I have dysfunctional parents, I’m going to leave .

In this case I was blindsided by the pandemic [emoji40] When I took him to my priest, my priest asked if it was a pandemic relationship. At the time I said no, but now I see it was. The pandemic caused me to make all kinds of changes in my life I wouldn’t have otherwise made. Now that the pandemic is winding down I’m seeing that.

[emoji3590]
Well he might be available time wise but still attachments and addictions make one not fully available for true connection with others because something else takes too big of a place.

Life style differences is a big thing. It usually causes problems in the long run. Smart move to end it
Thanks for this!
leomama