i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters that perhaps some more details may Help if you're willing to share them. Perhaps he doesn't like what he's studying? Maybe some problems at school? i think being angry at him may not always work and some kindness at least may prove to be necessary. Of course decide by yourself what to do then. i think making him understand that this is necessary for his future is an important step so perhaps talking to him about this can be somewhat Helpful? Something similar to this? i am not sure. Sorry if this post wasn't really Helpful. i Hope things will improve really soon for everyone. Please do keep us updated if you can and want to. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @CarolClark45, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!