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Old 07-09-2021, 10:56 AM  
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It is easier to forgive people when first, you can forgive yourself. Closely examine your own thoughts. Ask yourself truthfully if you are angry with yourself. If the answer is yes, then that is your first step. If no, then reading other peoples trials may help.

People are flawed and many struggle terribly to just survive. Sometimes they cause harm unintentionally and sometimes they lash out like an abused animal. True malevolence is very rare. I was able to forgive my abusers when I forgave myself for allowing the abuse and then confronted my own darkness "shadow".

Knowing the way is one thing, walking it is another. I wish you the best of luck. That is the path that helped me. Hopefully it will be of use.
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