Hey Eskie! I love the picture of your sweet dog! So Sorry that they have passed

She ended up leaving her ex spouse (they never married)..story on them. She met him at a bar one night, got drunk, and made a baby that same night. They stayed together and he cheated on her when their daughter was about 1 years old. She left him. She then got back together with him, got drunk again and made baby number two. He then cheated on her again and she decided to leave him again when the Son was maybe 4 and the daughter was 8. During their living situation he was also physically abusive, has caused loss of hearing in one of her ears, she's missing a molar tooth from a strike, he's broken her fingers, dragged her by the hair, tripped her down the stairs...etc etc etc....anyhow I don't condone ANY of that abuse. I do however not know what was the real reasons that the abuse got to that level. Was she a cheater? Was she emotionally abusive and he could not handle it? Was she mouthy? I have no idea what caused this guy to go to those levels but she said he only started doing those things near the end of the relationship. They owned a home together. She was also married before that ex spouse for less than one year, and the guy decided to write her a letter to let her know that he has fallen in love with someone else and so she left him....