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Originally Posted by mssweatypalms
This is just me addressing my feelings because my mind keeps on coming back to this for some reason. I'm really thankful for any replies, but honestly this comment offended me because I feel like my post was not fully read and understood. I was very upset and confused when I posted this and I feel judged. I know this was not the intention but this is how I feel.
Anyway, I just had to let that out. I know that you guys just want to help and I really appreciate it. Now I can forget about it.
@ indigo1015 I saw your thread and I hope you're feeling better now.  |
I have no intention of starting a fight or disrespecting anybody. I just want to show you some support and put in my two cents.
I am guilty of ghosting certain people. I don’t know if your problem is the same as mine. The thing with me is, I tolerate people up to the point where I simply can't. Anymore. I tell that to them. I complain for a long time and then I let them know I am not interested in seeing them anymore. But. They. Don't. Listen. "Why not? What have I done wrong? Why are you ruining a good thing? Tell me what I need to do different? (Told them a thousand times but they didn't care to listen)" At that point I have no energy left to give any sort of justification for my action. I just want them gone and my mental peace restored. With certain people, ghosting is the only option. If none of this resonates with you please feel free to disregard this post. Hugs.