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Originally Posted by divine1966
If you’ve never met any of them, I am not sure how you can consider a relationship or even choose between them and why. No matter how long you talk to them, they are strangers. I’d be looking for someone local
Oh never mind you did meet one of them but still it means nothing. One of them is in his 50s so that’s the one that lied? Why do you want any of these guys? Are there no young free men in your area?
You seem extremely trusting. He told his kids about you? I am sure he didn’t do such a thing. What would he tell? That he talks to a much younger woman he’s never met? What would he say it for? Also all these men planning life with you when they don’t even know you, and they all love you, that’s just not how it works.
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He said it's because I am probably coming over for a few days when I can, to meet him, and he wants the children to know beforehand. He said they were fine with it, although I thought they might mind, and somehow don't mind my age.
Well it's tricky meeting young men, I am a bit old fashioned so would prefer to meet them in real life, but everyone these days seems to meet online on a dating site. Except a few who have tons of friends and meet them through friends. Just out of interest, how would you suggest I meet them? Nights out haven't proved productive ... there are also no Meetup and similar groups where I live.
Thank you for your comment.