I was in a few online relationships myself. When I met them, I was disgusted by them. I don't know why but they all turned me off. Now, I only date people who are nearby. I believe one's mind fantasizes about people online and makes them to be more than who they really are. I would never want to be with someone who I never met in person anymore. This is just my experience. I am much older than you but am telling you that you should really think about what you are getting into. Also, you are so young, why don't you invest in getting a good job, instead of finding men online? Men come and go. A good job helps pay the bills and earns your freedom to do what you want. If I were you, I would invest in your life, instead of trying to invest your energy in others who you have never met. I'm 100 percent sure when you meet these men, you are going to run like the wind in the opposite direction. If it is too good to be true, it is. I have known men online from few months to years, and every one I met afterwards made my stomach churn. I am not joking! I still have problems finding good men from dating apps that I don't recommend either. Where can you find men? Why don't you find a good job and may be there might be some men at your new job? Just a thought. Best wishes!

I see you have met one of these men? Well, please don't settle for someone because he is in your life. Are you sure you really like him? I think not or you would not have a dilemma choosing one man from another. As I said, why don't you invest in finding a good job? There will be men there, I'm sure of this. Also, like the previous posters say about someone talking to you when you are 13 and grooming you is outright disgusting to me. But, since you are desperate in finding men, I highly advise you to invest in yourself first before sharing your life with somebody else. I say this because if you can't take care of yourself first, no matter what you do to find other people to be with, it won't work! I know I sound harsh but your choice of men are slim pickings and even I with half a brain and screwed up mind know that your situation could be improved by not worrying about the kind of men you described. Find yourself and others will find you/ Invest in yourself and others will be interested in you.