i partly agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about simply thanking them. If it's a skill that can be learned such as piano abilities you may refer her to someone whom can actually teach them if they're interested. i am not sure if sarcasm in these situations is good because it may further annoy her. Of course that is just my opinion and i may be completely wrong. Still, give it a thought. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @TheEbonyEwe, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!