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Old Jul 12, 2021, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
Is it just me or is a suspension from work really a vacation in disguise? I’m starting to dread returning to my scheduled shift on Friday. Even though it’s just 5 hours I’m like oh crap I need to transfer from that hostile environment.
First of all, vacations are typically paid time off. You are not being paid. You are receiving no income during this time. Most people would find that a hardship.

Second, the hostile environment is of your own making and will follow you wherever you go unless you change your behavior.

You need to expect that when you go in on Friday people may be cold towards you. You owe the trainer manager an apology for your remark. Others on staff will have likely heard and not want to talk much to you because of your attitude and behavior. You will need to remain professional and polite regardless. Over time if you remain professional and polite people who forgive your prior behavior. But you have to change for that to happen.

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