That thought crossed my mind too like maybe she really hasn't even had time to respond due to moving.

Plus, I think, about her keeping a low profile on Facebook (FB) might be that she's a very infrequent user of FB. So, it may not even be months from now until she finally gets on FB.

My mind is all over the place with what if's. Probably shouldn't dwell But like if she is just to busy to respond to the letter, say until she's moved away. Buy that time the letter addressed to her old address probably doesn't even hold that much weight as it's just an old address by that time. During a move, with all the flurry of things, one personal letter may not be such a big deal. At least I hope.

Looking back, a part of me wishes I had not even asked about FB. But the other part would have regrets had I not.

I should have respected the privacy and not sent the letter, but during that time of thinking feeling like I got short changed as I was hearing from the conversation "yes, happy to have me as a FB friend" yet also, wasn't an option in her profile.

I don't rule out maybe months from now she may finally get on FB and see my instant message and friend me then. Or by that time, the condo may all be in the past and she and her husband started a new life and these things get forgotten.

Thanks for your feedback.