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Originally Posted by RDMercer
I have. I don't do it well. I get angry quickly because a lot comes out.
I feel like I have been waiting my turn for emotional validation for a long time. I'm like a starving person. I don't just need validation, I need a lot of validation.
When I've told her that, she told me to address it with a therapist, that she's done all she's going to do.
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There is your answer. It's quite clear to me. Sometimes we marry people who don't give back when we need something. You ask them for it and if it is not coming (and she is being extremely clear it won't), then you might need to see what divorcing her looks like. Because your needs will not be met here.
If you choose to stay, you will stay knowing that
she doesn't intend to give you the validation you seek and she has told you to see a therapist.