I think every client and their therapeutic relationship ia unique so foe me to say what is healthy and not healthy is purely an opinion based on very limited facts.

As far as texting everyday day, all day and expecting an immediate response that is something that should be addressed by the therapist. There should be a discussion about what the therapist feels is appropriate and is acceptable to her as far as frequency and expectations of contact.

I have gone through difficult periods where I do contact my therapist quite a bit. She knows that when I do so there is a reason so she is understanding sometimes my reason is because I am on emotional overload and need to vent. On occasion I do feel hurt when she doesn't respond immediately BUT when we started out do session contact we discussed the boundaries as well as the fact that she can be really bad about reading her messages.