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Default Jul 16, 2021 at 06:55 AM
 
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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro View Post
I met a woman and her doggie while being in the park with my doggies. From the beginning I saw she was also a crazy of animals like me and she was very open to me. Very extrovert.
She was even opened to share time with me, go to have breakfast with our doggies. I invited her to take something and she invited me. Each time she came to my city contacted me to meet us. She even invited me to spend days with my doggies in the Community she lives.

My partner thought she was trying to seduce me or something. As my partner is very sociable and has lot of experience dealing with people, I began to have doubts and I couldn’t let aside that idea from my mind and I stopped messaging her.

I don’t want to blame my partner.
It all comes from my stupid lack of experience and my insecurities. I can’t connect with people. I’m sure about it. My personal qualities are not appealing at first sight, to say the least, that’a why I tend to hide myself in my own world. This woman was like fresh air for me, to be honest.
@AzulOscuro I am uncertain why your partner thought this woman was trying to seduce you from what you describe this sounds an everyday interaction between 2 women? You both love dogs and it sounds like you had a lot in common?

I have a female friend, extrovert, dog owner, and she has met several friends in the way you are describing. They walk dogs together, hang out, get breakfast sometimes too. It sounds nice to me? Did your partner say why he thought she was trying to seduce you?

Btw I think you are (in your posts here) an interesting, thoughtful, intelligent and humorous person - I can see why someone would seek your company.
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