So Sorry this happened! Please Do not give up! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters that it is inappropriate but i think it is also important to understand if it has been constant or not. If it was a couple of pictures in the past perhaps you may be willing to forgive her although it really depends on you i think. How much of a deal-breaker this is for you? If you feel like your trust has been tarnished perhaps come couple counseling may Help if she's willing to do that. Otherwise you may even consider simply leaving her then. i Hope things will improve. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @BoomerMudcat, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!