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Old Jul 16, 2021, 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by BoomerMudcat View Post
I have been seeing my girlfirend for a little over a year now, at the beginning of our relationship, i noticed that she had a few male friends from her past that she still kept in touch with, and i told her i would be more comfortable if she didnt talk to those guys, she stopped the snapstreaks with them and i thought everything was fine. A few days ago was her birthday, and i am on vacation at the moment (we live two hours from each other and only spend time together on weekends) so i came to stay with her for awhile in her apartment. She went to sleep pretty early, and i was up really late, i heard one of her friends text her, im in the dining room on my laptop and her phone is right next to me while she was sleeing in the bedroom, i couldnt resist looking through the phone, and i went right to her Snapchat. The same guy from the beginning that i asked her to stop talking to, wished her happy birthday, and i slide up to see the conversation and there are two pictures of my girlfriend half naked in the chat saved. I woke her up and we talked about it, she says she doesn’t remember sending them, but i just don’t believe her. For over a year this guy has had access to these photos and all she had to do was delete them from the chat, its like she wanted him to see. I feel betrayed, i cant realy look at her the same way knowing that this dude has been kwwping in touch with her our relationship, i dont really know what to do, any advice? Ive been really really sad since this happened

1) she didn’t lock her phone.
2) you didn’t trust her enough to not look in her phone .

I’m not a man so I can’t really answer your question. All I can say from an outsiders perspective is trust issues all around . My biggest question why doesn’t your girlfriend lock her phone? Why doesn’t she keep it next to her at night? That’s what most people do. It seems to me like she wanted you to find that.