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Jul 17, 2021, 11:17 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
I would like a real conversation with him cuz my coworkers gets to have a conversation with him. But in reality, he doesn't even say hi to me every time he's here. I usually say hi first and he says hi back but in a much less friendly way. Hell it's a very cold hi. And I posted before when he said "have a nice day" instead of hello. And neither of us were leaving. I left my position in back drive between orders just to see him as he was making his way to the back only to be met with "have a nice day." He clearly don't want to talk, so I kept trying. But every sentence I said was met with one or 2 word answers before he finally got what he needed and bounced. I hated that.
I need to prepare how I respond if my current GM or coworkers intervention don't' work. Ideally I would control myself and not break down.
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You cannot force him to talk to you. No one can. I wouldn't be surprised if your DM isn't telling you she'll talk to him just to get you to shut up and do your job, and she has no intention of saying anything to him regarding having any kind of conversation about you1family or friends. You are barely a coworker now. You are a former supervisee. That's all. The most you can expect out of that relationship is a "hello." He has no reason to say anything more to you.
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
How do I be a full time adult baby if I'm also working full time? No rewards chart, no snack time, and no nap time. NO play time. No sandbox.
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Do you see anyone else at work behaving like a baby? Is anyone else at work getting a rewards chart, snack time (outside of scheduled breaks) or nap time?
It's simple: if you want to be a full time baby then you will have to quit working. If you need to experience age regression to such an extent then the workplace is no place for you, and by no means should you be forcing it on your coworkers and supervisors.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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