Lizzie I'm convinced my mom's undiagnosed with a mood or personality disorder. She was so unpredictable that I moved out at 16 and states away by 19. I slowly forgave her but I have strict boundaries. Like I wouldn't leave my kid alone with my parents. She did some terrible things but I forgave her because she tried the best she could. She never has or will seek help but she's a lot calmer with less stress so I treat her like she's a different person than the one who raised me.