Yes seeker, I agree, most men consider their work as a sort of a "sanctuary". My husband is in the restaurant biz however, and anytime I have ever "bothered" him with personal stuff has been after the restaurant has closed, and he is alone in the office. The few times that I have "let it fly" during business hours, it was because something needed to be resolved ASAP. He works 10-12 hour days, usually between 10am and 10pm, so it doesn't leave alot of time for us to resolve our "stuff" without kid interuption!

I am 36 weeks pregnant, and am having a c-section/hysterectomy when she's born. There is no "getting away" for at least another eight weeks!

Thank you again to all who have given me support and verbal hugs!