My sister when she was pregnant she would tell me it was a traumatic time she said she relived the verbal abuse from her mum. Then after she had Alana the relationship between her and mum worsened. Mum would say to me she thought it would improve ever since Daniela was gonna become a mother... I mean knowing me and Daniela's childhood since it was the same I don't really blame her for having resentment because even though I don't like to admit it, but I have low self esteem and would get in friendships with men who were just as insulting and emotionally abusive as her. Luckily I learnt the lesson fast and ****ed those assholes off. People like that aren't even worth your time. I learnt from my mum that some people don't change and just play the victim when you call them out on it. I say f**** that and just flip her off.