It is an important conversation to have in the case of marriage particularly, and in this last year, I think many more people have sat down and had this conversation with each other. My husband and I both had living wills and medical power of attorney. We had had this conversation, and unfortunately, I had to put it to use a few months ago.

But this in an ex you are talking about, and I get the feeling you are wondering if she was planning something - seems a bit extreme. Probably was just on her mind. Why is it still on your mind?