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Originally Posted by ArtleyWilkins
It is an important conversation to have in the case of marriage particularly, and in this last year, I think many more people have sat down and had this conversation with each other. My husband and I both had living wills and medical power of attorney. We had had this conversation, and unfortunately, I had to put it to use a few months ago.
But this in an ex you are talking about, and I get the feeling you are wondering if she was planning something - seems a bit extreme. Probably was just on her mind. Why is it still on your mind?
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Well a lot of things are currently still on my mind as I think I am very much trauma bonded from this toxic relationship. I had decided to walk away about 4.5 months ago. I agree between spouses this type of question/scenerio makes sense if married or living together. However, we never lived together nor were married and were strictly dating. To answer the same question with the same clear answer seemed extremely odd to me looking back.