I may have come off very harsh, mickey, and i apologize.

I was on the receiving end of a cheating husband once upon a time, and every chance he had.

One such affair lasted seven years.

It broke my heart in two.

If only he left for her and stayed there - or stayed with me (and true) - life would have been bearable with him, and our finances would not have been in the dumpster, and the happiness of everyone in the family would have remained intact-

All I'm writing from is my past experience ... hope I haven't stepped on your toes ... it's not my intention.

peace,
nightbird