Beth I'm sorry about what your husband did.

I've had several T's try to get me back to work. A lot of what they say is there's a lot of people with BP that work. Now with my "new" Dx and team they want me to focus on hobbies and taking walks. I didn't change but my only guess is my prognosis became worse even though I'm more stable then I've ever been. You know yourself best maybe take a class regularly to get out of the house and meet people. Maybe ask your T what she wants you to get out of working.