My T hasn't disclosed anything about his past, but when I was complaining once that he didn't understand how HARD it is to be in therapy, he did disclose that he's been going to the same therapist once a week for eight years, and still continues to go. I was glad he told me that. I've wondered if he has issues - like past abuse or whatever - but I really don't want to know, at least not right now, because I love him and I have a huge desire for his life to be really happy.