So Sorry for what you're going through! Please Do not give up! i agree with the wise and wonderful RoxannteToto that i don't think you're necessarely overreacting. i am not sure of what gaslighting is exactly so i'm afraid i would rather not answer that but it seems clear that you do not like this so i'd suggesto to definitely speak up about this. Let him know that this behavior is bothering you. Hopefully he will understand. Can i ask you since when did he start to act like this? Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Werewoman, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!