I'm honestly over the discussion I've been ideal weight didn't matter my weight I was unhappy, for me I'd rather be happy then have a perfect body. I just wish they'd drop the subject. My sister's fiance probs have a BMI higher than mine but no doctor tells him to lose weight. I'm over the subject, over annoying my sister over it. I have to get the balls to fix my inner self esteem first, then maybe I'll try and care about my weight. I'm young I feel like I didn't need the sermon on my weight, when it probably my mental health that's maiming me the most