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Marriage dynamics are tough.
I was actually married to a very incompetent guy in many areas of life. Over the years I learned what he could & couldn't do. I let him do things when how he did it didn't matter....but there were some things I just didn't have the patience for because I would have to re-do some things & that was more work than if I just did it myself. When the outcome really didn't matter....he could have at it but when it actually effected me I had a say.
I have to admit, by the end of our marriage I had lost all patience with him & couldn't trust him to do anything. Sadly it got worse when I left & now I have had to get lawyers involved in the things he screw up.
Always 2 sides of a story. Would be interesting to know why your H reacts the way he does. Understanding his thinking might shed some light on why he is behaving that way
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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