I wrote a letter to



This was at No. 3’s suggestion. Obviously it wasn’t sendable, so I emailed it to her. Frankly the experience didn’t do anything for me. I don’t think it would have done anything if he’d actually read it, either. My feeling is I have nothing to say on the subject—I just want to focus on living with the aftermath.

But I also think it’s probably worth a try at least, to see if it helps you.