you cannot test for him..
if your brother is not accepting help for his health issues - you need to back off and give him breathing room to digest it all - do not smother him.
he already might have ideas about what his difficulties are.
there are enabling groups - and other sorts of support for families of those with illness they love.
if you ck out that avenue, you might find some relief.
I hope he gets well soon.
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I am larger and better than I thought.
I did not know I held so much goodness.
- Walt Whitman
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