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Old May 17, 2008, 12:03 AM
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you cannot test for him..

if your brother is not accepting help for his health issues - you need to back off and give him breathing room to digest it all - do not smother him.

he already might have ideas about what his difficulties are.

there are enabling groups - and other sorts of support for families of those with illness they love.

if you ck out that avenue, you might find some relief.

I hope he gets well soon.
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