When you claim you have an issue and you try to get help you don’t get the help you need but when you say you don’t need or want help no one believes you?

I’m talking about eating disorders but I guess this applies to anything.

This girl I knew on Facebook tried getting help with her eating disorder but everyone turned her away and wouldn’t help her. I know she was really overweight but I don’t get why they wouldn’t help her since bigger people can have EDs too.

I avoid telling people about my issues because everyone loses their **** and I get transferred to other people or I have to do intake assessments.

So are you just like labeled an attention seeker when you try to get help even if that’s not your intention?

I’m really secretive about my issues that I still am not 100% sure are there.