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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
I'm sorry about starting another thread
I've often heard about ''narcissists'' and how they sometimes ''discard'' people.
I had a ''friend'' irl who has BPD, she recently discarded me
When I needed support... and it was usually me supporting her, making her laugh and more.... she discarded me. Her last text to me said ''ok''
And she talked my ear off about her problems
I was nothing but supportive to her
No idea why .... idk if anyone else has ever experienced this? 
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I have a friend with Borderline Personality Disorder (clarifying because of the muddiness with BPD as bipolar) who would rant to me about her problems, which is fine. Friends do that sometimes. But it was much more about her ranting than actually having an exchange with me. One day, she got very upset that I talked to someone that she felt was hurtful to her. I felt like, according to her, pretty much everyone was hurtful to her, and I wasn't going to drop a really good friend for someone who could be borderline abusive. So she just stopped talking to me. Really, I was fine with it because she was Rant Lady anyway. But about five years later, she friend requested me on Facebook and told me she was going through DBT and trying to get better and that she was sorry for the way she treated me. We have a much better exchange now. So this whole long thing is me trying to say not to worry about it too much. Maybe she'll take care of herself and get it figured out. In the end, you'll have a better friend, if she ever does get it figured out.