Oh man, I can understand your being upset. Do you think this is something you can work through with her?

A few years ago, I wqs participating in a retreat. Part of the retreat consisted of somebody fromteh team putting on the retreat secretly reaching out to your family for "love letters". Letters about what you mean to them. My best friend contacted my family and my T. Whem I recieved my letter from T while it was really.l nice I also felt very uncomfortable.

Told me in detail how it came about. My therapist never confirmed our relationship as my friend was talking about the letter.. She wanted to say know but also knew how much the letter would mean to me. So she told my friend that there woud be a blank envelope on her door at x time and she would not be at the office. My friend guaranteed she would not open it. T was also VERY generic in the letter.

Both T and my friend reassured me that NOTHING about therapy was discussed. My friend told aboit the project and knowing that she was an important. That was it.....BUT it did feel weird and I can underatand why you would be really upaet.