I dont understand what this means:
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L called my sister back to ask for the address, and she sent my sister the card. We have yet to receive the card.
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Who is "we" who hasnt received the card? How do you know the card was sent?
Also, i dont see where L technically did anything wrong. She returned a rather strange phone call. Did she admit during that conversation that you were her client, in so many words? She could have been talking to the man in the moon, for all she knew.
You might feel guilty or something about giving out her phone number to begin with. Thats a boundary violation with your family that was not handled well. Why blame her for that, except that its easier to blame her than yourself or your family?
I totally get wanting to cut her off - thats how i was. Thats how i was raised - be perfect or be gone! I think this is a good incident to discuss the meaning of, start to finish, but i really dont see where she did enough to be the bad guy here. I think your distrust is misdirected.
Im sorry, i know i sound plain and harsh. I cant see where your sister is going with all this. Why did she think manipulating L to send you a card was in any wise a good idea? Or even possible? We cant make ts do carp like that! Was she gonna say the hedgehog was from L?