Luna--
Who is "we" who hasnt received the card? How do you know the card was sent?
We=my sister and I. The card was sent because L told me it was sent.

Also, i dont see where L technically did anything wrong. She returned a rather strange phone call. Did she admit during that conversation that you were her client, in so many words? She could have been talking to the man in the moon, for all she knew.
Exactly. She could have been talking to anyone. She broke my confidentiality by calling my sister back.

You might feel guilty or something about giving out her phone number to begin with. Thats a boundary violation with your family that was not handled well. Why blame her for that, except that its easier to blame her than yourself or your family?
This is plain mean. This whole post seems mean and attacking. I'm not blaming L for my sister contacting her. I'm blaming her for calling my sister back.

I totally get wanting to cut her off - thats how i was. Thats how i was raised - be perfect or be gone! I think this is a good incident to discuss the meaning of, start to finish, but i really dont see where she did enough to be the bad guy here. I think your distrust is misdirected.
I do NOT want to cut her off!!!

Im sorry, i know i sound plain and harsh. I cant see where your sister is going with all this. Why did she think manipulating L to send you a card was in any wise a good idea? Or even possible? We cant make ts do carp like that! Was she gonna say the hedgehog was from L?
I don't understand you. L did send a card because my sister asked her to. And what does the hedgehog have to do with anything?