I understand how you feel. Please don't let yourself become discouraged by their behavior. After 25 years someone should have really helped you. Maybe it's time to let them know exactly what you need and make them help you. In a firm respectful way, demand it. They work for YOU, not the other way around.

I know it can feel your nothing but a number. They bring you in, then hurry you on out the door without even listening to your concerns.

You deserve to feel cared about and important. It is their job to make you feel that way. It is very important that you get them to listen to you. Please don't shy away from telling them what you need. You deserve to be healthy & happy.

Take Care