So Sorry for what you're going through! Please Do not give up! i do think it is good for their children to take care of their parents in any way they can but obviously not at the expense of their own health and well-being. i'd suggest to talk to your father and explain to him that he needs to treat his children better if he expects them to be able to take care of him in the best way if you haven't already of course. Are there any other alternatives for someone to help you take care of your father if i may ask? Perhaps a nursing home. i am not Sure. Please do update us if possible if you want to. Hugs. Love. Stay Safe. Be Strong. Love. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @BorisTheAnimal, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!