One of the frustrating aspects of the English language is there is only one word for love. When in reality love has so many different definitions. As Americans we often just think of erotic love. My love for T falls more inclined with Phileo love we have a relationship and connection and mutual respect. I have never actually said "I love you" to my Ts BUT I am fairly certain current T and I have that feeling foe each other. It is about loving others just because the are God's children as well as we are care about each other.