my sister has been anorexic for about 3 1/2 years now and shes still losing a lot of weight. i wanna help her bc shes getting smaller and i hate seeing her hurt and i cant help her. but the thing is she doesnt want any help. some of my family members have noticed and they are always on her case to eat. i wanna help her but i dont want to nag her bc i know that wont help. the thing is im bulimic and have been doing it heavly for about 5 years. i dont know if im in any position to be saying anything to her. i dont want her to think i am a hypocrite, shes my sister and i lover her to death...i just want to see her happy. idk what i should say or when i should?