I have to disagree. Completely! L is NOT allowed to talk to my family without my consent. It is unethical for a T to do so. That would be like them talking to a clients past T or their Pdoc without consent. L knew she was calling my sister because my sister identified herself in the voicemail.

Can you please stop arguing on this point? I asked to not analyze this, and yet you did. Maybe where you're at, a T can contact whoever they please about you, bit here, if 100% not okay. L knows this. It's not something I'm making up.