I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We were friends and then dated for 6 months when I became pregnant. We both have struggled with mental health- depression and anxiety. I have worked with therapists over the years. He has refused but gets meds prescribed. We have have had issues for many years now which he has agreed exist. There is no intimacy or affection from him, which he blames on his meds. He also has a tendency to "mother" me and expect me to care for him and do things for him. I also feel like he constantly criticizes me and so I can't talk to him about things. I feel like I'm constantly walking in eggshells to not piss him off. He is always so miserable and makes others miserable with his attitude. We have 2 children (9&13) and they are the reason that I stay with him. I just don't know if I'm being petty. I thought that I could stay but I don't know if I can continue like this.