When my abusive ex mother in law couldn't live alone due to dementia I became her full time carer. I cared for her for 4 years and ended up having a breakdown and it destroyed my marriage. I now struggle with mental health, depression, anxiety, ptsd. Her abuse got worse and she is now in a care home. If he has been abusive throughout your life I would advise not to become his carer. If you are already dealing with mental health issues it would make your health worse, and cause new health issues.

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